My friend has a free lecture tonight. It is about dealing conversations that go totally wrong. For example, you start out having a nice conversation over the 4th of July weekend and next thing you know the topic of favorite football teams come up. Things just went from casual to serious. Then since the conversation is already going so well somebody changes it to public policies regarding controversial topics. Things just went from serious to critical. Ouch, that isn’t what anybody intended, but it is easy to recover from this.
My friend has a free lecture tonight about how to turn these really intense and downright angry conversations back to where they began: two passionate people who want to share what they value and feel with people who they respect and care for. Check out how—it is possible for all of us immediately.
If you have something that helps you be happy in life, and you want to share it with the world, then you need a detailed and structured plan for making it happen.
Put it on paper under these headings:
- Action Plan
If any heading is a little light, then dig into it and fill it out before moving forward.
Share it with your friends and family. Make it happen.
You might call it being a hero, or good, good friend.
Who do you need to be a hero to?
Three Good Friends: Belly Breathing, Abdominal Lifts, Nasal Wash.
Simple and powerful.
More details here.
Personal transformation begins with kindness.
It is shockingly simple.
It begins with yourself.
Inspiration and offense are usually delivered in the same basket.
The trick is to spend more time on the inspiration.
Workout too much or too little.
Have fun too often or too little.
Vent too much or too little.
A sense of wonder about how we live, its impact on our happiness, courage to wonder about possibilities, and willingness to play around with making a different approach in life can alleviate some of that pain. Quickly.